The Story Of The Little Wave

The Story Of The Little Wave

Once upon a time, in the middle of the Pacific Ocean, a long, long way from the shore, on a very still day, while the sun was shining with all its might, there appeared a wave.

Why did the wave appear right then and there? Well I don’t know, to be honest. I’m not an expert on waves. I’m not a waveologist. I’m not even sure waveologist a real word.

All you need to know right now is that a wave did appear, quite suddenly and out of the blue.

What did the wave do? Well from what I heard (I wasn’t there), the first thing the wave did was stick up its head and look around.

“Hmmm, where am I?” it asked to no-one in particular because, well, there was no-one to ask.

Everywhere the wave looked, all it could see was blue. Blue, blue, blue. Blue up above, blue down below, blue as far as it could see.

“I’m must be in the middle of the blue,” the wave decided, quite correctly.

“Now that I’ve decided where I am,” the wave concluded “I guess I should also figure out what I am.”

This turned out to be a much harder problem. When the wave looked down at its body, it realized that it, also, was blue, just like the blue it could see up and down and sideways. After much consideration, the wave decided that even though it was blue, just as everything else was blue, that it must be different somehow from the rest of the blue because it was standing up above the rest of the blue.

“I am a wave!”, the wave decided. This was a pretty impressive leap of logic, I must say. “I am a wave and I’m pretty special,” the wave declared to nobody in particular.

Just at that moment, a great wind started to blow behind the wave, and it gathered a little more energy and grew a little larger. “Wow,” the wave thought to itself. “Did you see what I just did? I made myself larger and faster!” As the wave couldn’t see the wind, it didn’t realise that it had nothing to do with the new burst of energy. Neither did it stop to wonder how it became stronger and faster – this was too complex for a young wave to think about. It just decided that it did these things itself. That was the simplest answer, even though it didn’t stand up to much inquiry. Waves, after all, aren’t known for their big IQ.

“I am a most excellent wave,” said the wave out loud to itself.

After a few minutes of surfing and waving, the wave became a little bored out there in the great blue by itself. Fortunately, at that exact moment, another wave suddenly appeared beside it!

“Well hello, new wave!”, said the wave.

“Ummm hi,” replied the new wave. “Where am I?”

“You’re in the blue,” replied the wave.

“Oh I see,” said the new wave. “And what am I?”

“You are a wave, just like me,” answered the first wave.

“A wave?” asked the new wave. “What does a wave do?”

“Oh well, we can do all sorts of amazing things,” the first wave assured the new wave. Fortunately, at that exact moment, another great wind blew up behind the first wave and made it larger and faster.

“See what I just did?”, the first wave asked the new wave. “I’m sure that’s just a small part of what we can do.”

As the wind was behind both of them, the new wave also grew faster and larger at the same time.

“You do learn quickly!” the first wave congratulated the new wave.

And from that moment on, the two waves became the very best of friends, because what waves like more than anything is to be complimented.

The waves spent the next few minutes rolling and waving and surfing and having a great old time. As a few minutes is actually close to the lifetime of a wave, it seemed to them like they had been together for a very, very long time, out there in the great blue (time, after all, is relative). During this relative very, very long time, they had concluded that waves were, in fact, the most special thing in the entire blue. They decided that the entire blue had been created by the wave god just for them. They also decided that the wave god loved them so much that it gave them the ability to think and act independently of the rest of the blue – the waves called this “free will”.

As they approached the shore, an old, mighty, white albatross soared above them. “Hello white flying thing!” the waves shouted in unison. “What are you?”

“I am an albatross,” replied the albatross, quite appropriately, for it was indeed an albatross.

“Okay then, albatross. We are very pleased to meet you,” responded the waves. “We are waves and we have been out here alone together for many, many years, so you know, it’s good to meet something else.”

“Oh my,” said the albatross. “I have been watching you from the shore and I can assure you that you only appeared in the ocean a few minutes ago.”

“The ocean?” the waves asked, confused by this new information. “What is the ocean?”

“The ocean is what you both are,” replied the albatross. “You are simply bumps on the ocean. Nothing more and nothing less.”

“Nonsense,” scolded the waves. “You obviously don’t know what you are talking about. We are waves. The entire blue was created especially for us by the wave gods. We are the most special thing in the entire blue. We have free will and everything.”

“Oh my,” said the albatross for the second time, trying not to be rude. “I know it must seem that way to you, but I assure you that I have seen thousands of waves come and go during my life and I have sailed across the ocean for many, many years. From up here I see things from a much different perspective. Waves are just blips in the ocean. Without the ocean you wouldn’t exist. You are not separate from the ocean, my dear friends. You are merely the ocean briefly observing itself.”

The waves were quite stunned by this news and, although they didn’t really take the albatross seriously, they were interested in hearing more.

“When you say you have seen waves come and go, what do you mean? What happens to waves?” they asked.

“Do you see that long, white line that you are racing towards?” the albatross asked. “That white line is called the shore. When you reach it, you will vanish.”

“Vanish?” the waves asked in horror. “Will we die?”

“My dear waves,” the albatross purred in his most gentle voice. “You cannot die because you were never alive in the first place. You are the ocean, not the wave.”

The waves thought about that for a minute and were about to reject the entire premise as ridiculous when they crashed into the shoreline and

 

“Hmmm, where am I?” asked a new wave to no-one in particular.

Photo Credit: Jon Sullivan

Photo Credit: Jon Sullivan

 

The Waking Dream

The Waking Dream

Chrissy and I were sitting around a campfire near Noosa last night, talking about dreams.

Most people have no problem with the idea that the world that exists inside their dreams, including themselves, their friends, family, inanimate objects, etc, are merely thoughts, brain spasms over which they have no control. They would have no problem agreeing that the entire world inside their dream exists totally and completely inside their minds. They totally accept that all of those people, events, their own bodies, the entirety of the dream universe – have no reality outside of their mere thoughts.

Yet, when you suggest that the “waking” world also exists totally inside their minds, they struggle to accept it. Why? Because it feels different. It feels more vivid. But this feeling, too, exists only inside the dream. When you are in a dream, how often do you question the reality of the dream? Doesn’t it also feel vivid? Haven’t you woken up saying “wow, that seemed so real!”

And have you ever had one of those dreams where you know you are dreaming? You suddenly realise you are in a dream and you just accept it. You relax, saying to yourself “well it’s just a dream, so nothing is real, let’s see what happens next and enjoy it!”

Well that’s exactly what enlightenment is like. You realise that the waking state is also a dream – that you, your family, your friends, the entire world exist only as thoughts, as concepts – that in reality, they are all just atoms, frenetically interacting with each other, eternal, immutable, and completely governed by the laws of physics. Waking up from this dream, you think “wow, this is just a dream – let’s sit back, relax and enjoy whatever happens next!”

Video #2

Video #2

A short video (about 10 minutes) talking about what life is like after the realisation that we are nothing but atoms.

If you have ideas for subjects or questions for future videos, let me know in the comments section.

The enlightenment experience

The enlightenment experience

Once you get it, there is no going back.

Someone suggested to me recently that some people ‘have the enlightenment experience’ but then they go back to living the old way.

To me this seems unlikely. The ‘enlightenment experience’, if you want to call it that, is a one way street. Once you realize that you are not, never have been and never will be an individual entity as you had always assumed, it fundamentally changes your life experience. It is like waking up from the Matrix – once you know, you know. It’s a fundamental shift in your thinking. It’s like finding out one of your parents has died. You don’t forget and try to call them the next day or a few months later. You might retain certain mental habits. My dad died 11 years ago and I still sometimes have the thought that I’d like to talk to him, but, when I do, my brain immediately reminds me that he is dead.

The same is true of knowing that you are not an individual. Certain habits of thinking about yourself as an individual might remain, after all, they are hard wired into your brain, but if you’ve had ‘the experience’, then whenever those thought arise, they will immediately be countered by the new information.